What to Wear: The Ultimate Guide to Engagement Outfits That Feel Like You

OH MY GOSH YOU’RE FREAKING ENGAGED! Cue the happy dancing and all the heart eyes. This season of your life is filled with so much joy, excitement, and anticipation for the future. It’s a time you’ll want to remember forever—and there’s no better way to capture this moment than with a dreamy engagement session. But if you’re already wondering, “What should we wear to our engagement session?” you’re definitely not alone.

Choosing the perfect engagement outfits can feel overwhelming. You want to look your best and feel confident while staying true to your personality and relationship vibe. Between coordinating colors, layering up for the season, and avoiding the trendy pieces you’ll cringe at later (trust me, I’ve been there), it can be a lot.

So how do you pull together engagement outfits that look incredible on camera and feel like you? Let me help you simplify the stress with these tried-and-true tips for picking outfits that reflect your love story while looking amazing in every frame.

Coordinate, Don’t Match

Matching outfits are out. Coordinating is where it’s at. Choose a color palette of two or three complementary shades and pull pieces that fit within it. This helps your looks blend beautifully together without being too matchy-matchy. When in doubt, neutrals are always a win. They photograph beautifully and work well with just about any backdrop—especially those scenic locations we pick together for your session.

Dress for the Location and Season

Your engagement outfits should complement the setting and time of year. Dreamy springtime florals? Light, breezy textures and soft pastels. Fall forest vibes? Think cozy knits, warm tones, and layers that move with you. Always choose colors that stand out from your backdrop so you don’t blend in too much.

Need help choosing a location? Check out this helpful engagement location guide for some ideas.

Comfort is Key

Yes, you want to look incredible. But looking incredible starts with feeling amazing. If your clothes are stiff or make you self-conscious, that’s going to show up in the photos. Wear something that feels like your favorite version of yourself. Think of your favorite pieces and consider wearing them. When you feel like yourself, your photos will reflect that authenticity.

Let Your Personal Style Shine

Are you boho babes? Edgy and artistic? Laid-back adventurers? Your engagement outfits should reflect who you are as a couple. Think of this session like a snapshot of your love story, not a formal photoshoot. Whether it’s vintage-inspired, denim and boots, or something totally unique, lean into your style and make it yours.

Bring More Than One Outfit

I recommend bringing one casual outfit and one more dressed-up option. It adds variety to your gallery and gives us more to play with during your shoot. Bonus: changing into a new outfit can help you reset and relax if you’re feeling a little camera shy.

If we don’t have access to a restroom or private space, I don’t mind being a human shield while you change in your car. (Seriously.)

Details Matter

Accessories like hats, scarves, layered necklaces, statement earrings, or even a cozy blanket can add so much depth and texture to your photos. If you’re wearing jewelry that holds sentimental value, this is the perfect time to show it off. Just steer clear of anything overly trendy that might make the photos feel dated later on. Stick with timeless pieces that feel like you.

Don’t Wait Until the Last Minute

Start pulling your engagement outfits together a couple of weeks before your session. This gives you time to try everything on, coordinate your pieces, and make any changes if needed. If we’re already working together, feel free to send me photos of your outfit ideas—I’d love to help.

A Few Last Words

Your engagement is a special time that deserves to be beautifully captured. By following these tips, you’ll be well on your way to choosing the perfect outfits for your engagement session. And when you’re ready to book a photographer who will ensure these moments are captured perfectly, look no further, I’m already dreaming of how we can make your engagement session an adventure that you’ll remember fondly for decades to come!!

Click here to book your engagement session with me!! Together, we’ll embark on an adventure that you’ll cherish forever, and curate a gallery that tells the authentic story of your love for generations to come.