Things to Do the Month Before Your Elopement

Okay, you’re so close to your elopement day! The excitement is real, but I know the last month before your wedding can feel… overwhelming. You want to soak in all the adventure, look amazing in photos, and actually enjoy your day without running yourself ragged.

To help you stay calm and organized, here’s my go-to checklist for the month before your elopement. Think of it as your mini sanity saver—everything you actually need to do, without the extra stress.

1. Confirm Your Vendors

Check in with everyone you booked—photographer, officiant, florist, etc.—and make sure:

• Everyone knows the exact location, timing, and any permits needed.
• Contact info is up to date in case of last-minute changes.
• Your timeline works for all parties.

Tip: Send one group email to everyone to avoid a million back-and-forths. Easy and stress-free.

2. Apply for or Double-Check Permits

If your elopement is in a national park or public space, make sure your permits are in place. Double-check:

• The exact location on the permit matches your plan.
• Rules for photography, music, or small ceremonies are clear.
• Timing restrictions, parking, and trail access are understood.

Trust me—having this done ahead of time is a major stress reliever.

3. Create a Wedding-Day Timeline

Even if your elopement is intimate, a loose timeline keeps the day smooth. Include:

• Ceremony time + photos afterward
• Travel time between locations
• Meals or snacks
• Buffer for delays, weather, or other surprises

Pro tip: I help couples create timelines that actually work for adventurous locations so nothing feels rushed.

4. Pack Your Elopement Day Bag

Make sure you have everything you’ll need for your adventure day:

• Comfortable shoes for hiking
• Dress or outfit changes if needed
• Snacks + water
• Emergency kit (safety pins, stain remover, mini first aid)
• Any items for your ceremony (rings, vow cards, etc.)

A little preparation goes a long way in keeping the day stress-free.

5. Touch Base With Your Photographer

Your photographer isn’t just there to click pictures—they’re your guide for the day. Make sure you’ve:

• Shared outfit ideas and any inspiration
• Talked about the kind of photos you want (adventurous, candid, or editorial)
• Planned for backup locations if weather or crowds show up

This is the time to make sure your vision is crystal clear so your photos end up exactly how you imagined.

6. Finalize Your Guest List (if applicable)

Even elopements sometimes include a few close family or friends. Confirm:

• Who’s attending and who’s not
• Travel arrangements or accommodations
• Any special surprises you want them to be part of

7. Take Care of Yourself

Seriously, don’t forget this one!

• Hydrate, eat well, and rest
• Schedule a massage, yoga, or walk to de-stress
• Focus on the fact that this day is about you two

Your elopement day will feel even more magical if you show up feeling relaxed and present.

Last Thoughts

The month before your elopement is all about dotting i’s, crossing t’s, and giving yourself space to breathe. Take a deep breath, check off these steps, and you’ll be able to step into your day with confidence, excitement, and joy.

Need help planning? I guide couples through every step—from timeline to permits—so your Zion or Utah elopement is smooth, stress-free, and absolutely unforgettable. Book your consultation and let’s make it happen!!